The Holy Bible tells “Children Honor you Father and Mother”. The Holy Bible tells us to honor only our parents and no one else. Loving your parents is not honoring. You need to honor your parents.
The Holy Bible tells us “ Husbands, love your wives”. It doesn’t say honor your wife or respect your wife. It clearly says love your wife as Christ also loved the Church.
The Holy Bible tells us Wives respect your Husband. It doesn’t say love your husband. It doesn’t say honor your husband. It says respect your husband.
The literal dictionary meaning of each word as follows from Oxforddictionaries
A strong feeling of affection:
Feel deep affection or sexual love for (someone):
High respect; great esteem:
Regard with great respect:
A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements:
Admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements:
Next time you want to honor some one or dishonor someone, love some one or hate someone, respect some one or disrespect someone ….Do be aware what you are about to do.